Categories of People We Need To Avoid As A Single Lady.

One of the things I try to avoid in life, is been in a relationship with a guy that is engaged to another lady and also married men.

This categories of people are danger zone for me as a person. You may ask me why?

I will not like to do to others, what I don’t what others to do to me.

Late last year I met a man who work as a site engineer/supervisor in the same Estate were I work. He saw how tired I was that day and decided to stop his car and give me a ride to where I was going, ever since then we became friends. While we were going home He asked me so many questions, as if I was undergoing an interview. I said to myself (eh Chineke ) what kind of questions is this man asking me? But I had no choice, I have to answer all the questions He asked. At the end of the conversation we both exchange contacts.

I am the kind of person that don’t actually save contact of someone I just met except the person insist I save it immediately, so I didn’t save the number.

This man is always complaining that I don’t usually call him, but Why will I call a married man? To discuss what? Rather than saying how are you and the family?

A day after He called me on phone during closing time but this time I was with my friend, so we both join him in the car. I introduced her to this male friend of mine, not knowing that this man was not comfortable, so after highlighting at our usual bus stop. He held me back and said He like the way I compose myself and He want us to take the friendship to another level. What? Infact I never see this coming but I have to run for my dear and wonderful life.

I asked him, sir with due respect, I believe you are married. His response was yes. I asked again, so, what else are you looking for? His response again was, He want us to spend some time together.

Please help me o, is it possible to hang around a married man in that matter without anything else attached to it?

I told him, I was not interested and beside He is a married man. His response was that my mind is dirty. See me see whahala for naija, so telling you the truth means my mind is dirty, I said to myself. The next thing He said was, you are not a kid.

This same man called me and started asking these following questions:

If you are with your friend and I want to take you out, will she go with us? My respond was yes she will go with us.

He ask again, do you mean that any where we are going and you are with your friend, she will go with us? My respond again was yes.

I am doing this because I know fully well that He is a married man.